Shelby Devlin M.A.Consensual Non-ConsentOne of the most common BDSM fantasy themes is also the most controversial — forced sex fantasies. Forced sex fantasies, rape fantasies and…6 min read·Apr 22, 2024----
Shelby Devlin M.A.Common BDSM PracticesAs our culture becomes more open-minded and accepting of sexual variation, BDSM has emerged from the shadows, gaining recognition and…5 min read·Feb 19, 2024----
Shelby Devlin M.A.Problematic Sexual DesireI cannot count the number of times a new client has sat on my couch and told me that they weren’t comfortable with what turns them on, and…7 min read·Jan 30, 2024----
Shelby Devlin M.A.Do as I say, not as I do.Internalized Homophobia within the GOP6 min read·Dec 5, 2023----
Shelby Devlin M.A.Impact Play for BeginnersDiscover pleasure in pain. This guide will provide you with essential information and tips to make your journey pleasurable, fun, and safe.8 min read·Nov 13, 2023----
Shelby Devlin M.A.Bondage Basics and SafetyI’m not sure how this all began, but bondage was an essential part of my Barbie play when I was a little girl. My barbies were constantly…7 min read·Oct 12, 2023----
Shelby Devlin M.A.Religious Sexual Shame: Understanding & HealingReligious sexual shame, or the shame that results from religious beliefs that go against our sexual desire, is a deeply ingrained emotional…6 min read·Aug 31, 2023----
Shelby Devlin M.A.An Introduction to Fetish & KinkDiscover the nuances of fetish and kink, while learning how to explore them both in ways that maximize pleasure and connection.6 min read·Aug 3, 2023----
Shelby Devlin M.A.How Queer Intimacy Can Help You Become a Better LoverSexuality is a complex and diverse spectrum. Within that spectrum, queer people have long been pioneers of exploring and redefining norms…6 min read·Jul 20, 2023----