Shelby Devlin M.A.Overcoming JealousyMany years ago, my partner and I were having a threesome with a new lover. We had been in bed together for a couple hours, having a fun and…Sep 17Sep 17
Shelby Devlin M.A.The Alluring Femme DomI am a femme dom. This means that I am a feminine person who is also dominant, but this also means that I wield my femininity as a tool for…Aug 19Aug 19
Shelby Devlin M.A.The Good, the Bad, and the BratA submissive’s motivation to surrender.Jul 301Jul 301
Shelby Devlin M.A.The Gift of Dominance: Key skills to become an excellent lover.I am a great lover. I have done the research, collected thew data, and put in my 10,000 hours and counting. What sets me apart from the…Jun 27Jun 27
Shelby Devlin M.A.Cuckold & Hotwife KinksCuckolding and hotwifing have gained increasing attention as forms of sexual expression within consensual kink relationships. These two…May 28May 28
Shelby Devlin M.A.Consensual Non-ConsentOne of the most common BDSM fantasy themes is also the most controversial — forced sex fantasies. Forced sex fantasies, rape fantasies and…Apr 22Apr 22
Shelby Devlin M.A.Common BDSM PracticesAs our culture becomes more open-minded and accepting of sexual variation, BDSM has emerged from the shadows, gaining recognition and…Feb 19Feb 19
Shelby Devlin M.A.Problematic Sexual DesireI cannot count the number of times a new client has sat on my couch and told me that they weren’t comfortable with what turns them on, and…Jan 30Jan 30
Shelby Devlin M.A.Do as I say, not as I do.Internalized Homophobia within the GOPDec 5, 2023Dec 5, 2023
