Babygirl: Exploring Vulnerable Intimacy and BDSMOver the past few weeks, countless people have asked me what I think about the film Babygirl, written and directed by Halina Reijn. And I…Jan 21Jan 21
Tools of Dominance: Hard & Soft PowerOne of the most nuanced aspects of BDSM is the interplay between hard power and soft power — two distinct approaches to domination that…Dec 2, 2024Dec 2, 2024
Distinguishing BDSM from AssaultBDSM is consensual erotic play that can sometimes be mistaken as abuse. Some individuals maliciously exploit this confusion, citing BDSM as…Oct 18, 2024Oct 18, 2024
Overcoming JealousyMany years ago, my partner and I were having a threesome with a new lover. We had been in bed together for a couple hours, having a fun and…Sep 17, 2024Sep 17, 2024
The Alluring Femme DomI am a femme dom. This means that I am a feminine person who is also dominant, but this also means that I wield my femininity as a tool for…Aug 19, 2024Aug 19, 2024
The Gift of Dominance: Key skills to become an excellent lover.I am a great lover. I have done the research, collected thew data, and put in my 10,000 hours and counting. What sets me apart from the…Jun 27, 2024Jun 27, 2024
Cuckold & Hotwife KinksCuckolding and hotwifing have gained increasing attention as forms of sexual expression within consensual kink relationships. These two…May 28, 2024May 28, 2024
Consensual Non-ConsentOne of the most common BDSM fantasy themes is also the most controversial — forced sex fantasies. Forced sex fantasies, rape fantasies and…Apr 22, 2024Apr 22, 2024
